Part Three of my Fragile Things series is here! Part One is here. Part Two is here. This is the final part of the series featuring my photographs of fragile things, with hand-lettered text from Neil Gaiman's book of short stories, Fragile Things, overlaid on top. Working on this project has been enlightening and I really appreciate these final thoughts about the nature of fragile things.Read More
Part Two of my Fragile Things series is here! Part One is here. This is a three part series featuring photographs of fragile things, with hand-lettered text from Neil Gaiman's book of short stories, Fragile Things, overlaid on top. These photo illustrations explore the nature of fragile things. I myself am going through a fragile time right now, my Mom is dying of cancer, and I have found working on this project to be a great way to meditate on what I am going through and what it all means.
From the Introduction:
Hearts may break, but hearts are the toughest of muscles, able to pump for a lifetime, seventy times a minute, and scarcely falter along the way. Even dreams, the most delicate and intangible of things, can prove remarkably difficult to kill.
From the story Strange Little GIrls:
The view changes from where you are standing. Words can wound, and wounds can heal. All of these things are true.
From the story How To Talk To Girls At Parties:
We wrapped our dreams in words and patterned the words so that they would live forever, unforgettable.
Hearts may break, but they are tough. It's something I need to remember right now. Resilience, perspective and a legacy. That is what Neil Gaiman's words mean to me. It's why I write and make art. Writing and making art make me stronger, give me perspective and hopefully, it will build up into a legacy that I can leave to my family.
Part Three is coming in the following weeks! Stay tuned for that.
A few months ago I was inspired to photograph objects that are considered fragile. As I was working on the shots, I remembered that Neil Gaiman published a collection of short stories called Fragile Things. It was a book I didn't remember reading, so I picked it up from the library and I found that I was familiar with many of the stories from other sources. There are some good ones in there. Some of them are creepy, but still so good. Gaiman is such an amazing story teller.
I came across so many great quotes that I decided to hand letter the ones that were specifically related to fragile things and overlay the illustrated text onto the images. This is the first image of a three part series and I'll post the next two separately in the following weeks.
From the story Strange Little Girls:
She seems so cool, so focused, so quiet, yet her eyes remain fixed upon the horizon.
You think you know all there is to know about her immediately upon meeting her, but everything you think you know is wrong. Passion flows through her like a river of blood.
She only looked away for a moment, and the mask slipped, and you fell. All your tomorrows start here.
From the story Instructions:
Do not lose hope—what you seek will be found.
Trust those that you have helped to help you in their turn.
Trust your heart, and trust your story.
I've really enjoyed working on this project and it's given me new insights into fragile things. I love these sentiments about identity and trust. You need focus and passion. You need to trust dreams, hearts and stories. It's about knowing and trusting yourself. And above all, do not lose hope. Ever. What you seek will be found. For a seeker like me, that statement makes me feel so good. It assures me to just keep at it. I will get there eventually, I will find what I am looking for.
The short story Instructions, became a lovely book of it's own illustrated by Charles Vess. I bought it for my kids and this story/poem is pure magic. It's all the best advice from fairy tales. Your kid's adventures and imaginations will most surely be inspired by reading it.
What is your favorite fragile thing or fairy tale?
Melanie at Inward Facing Girl is featuring my photography and studio in her Art I Heart series today and I couldn't be more flattered and honored.
I'm a very intuitive worker. I try not to plan too much and I let my mood and circumstances tell me what I should be working on. Sometimes it's just about sorting through a box of old things.
I have a list of ideas and concepts that I revisit constantly to see if anything stands out to me or feels like I have more to add to it.
Read more over at Inward Facing Girl and get a peek at the first photos of my newly organized studio! I've been working on cleaning up my space for MONTHS and it's finally starting to come together. If there is anything you would like to know about my creative process or my studio, ask questions in the comments and I would be happy to answer them! Here's one secret, while the pictures show a perfectly arranged studio, behind the camera and just out of frame is a complete disaster of everything ELSE. It's true. Remember: Nothing is perfect.
I've decided I'm not a careful crafter. I'd rather be a throw-it-all-on-the-table-and-make-a-mess kind of crafter. At least, I've learned to be that way with the kids. It's just more fun. There was a time when I crafted Martha Stewart style and it's great when I'm doing my own projects but I've reached epic levels of frustration trying to get the kids to do a project a certain way.
This year Milo moaned a little bit about Valentine's cards but got very excited when I suggested that we make our own. I thought it was awesome that he wanted to get creative instead of just signing his name to store bought cards like we did last year. I have tons of art supplies on hand, so we didn't even need a trip to the store.
I cut thick white drawing paper into 3 x 4 inch rectangles and gathered up a bunch of red art supplies like decorative papers, red and gold paint, red ribbon, markers, a red dinosaur stamp and a star and hole punch. Everything went in the middle of the table and I let the kids decide what they wanted to include on each card. I gave them a little guidance, at first we worked on five cards at once so they were similar, but by the end of it they were doing their own thing on individual cards. It goes a little faster if you do five cards at once, adding the same element to each card assembly-line style.
Quinn made almost all of his own this year, with just a little help from his Dad and I thought it was adorable he was signing his name with just a "Q" by the end of it. His cards are below and besides the dog one and the big heart, he made them all himself. I loved that he got creative with the hole punch and wanted four holes next to each other to thread the ribbon through. So clever. (He would tell me where to punch and I would do it for him.)
For the card above, Quinn asked how to spell Valentine. So freaking cute.
Milo hand-drew quite a few of his own cards as well but Chris and I did help him with some of them. All of Milo's cards are below. The top one that Milo is holding was entirely designed by him and I really love it. If you scroll down to the last image, can you guess which one of the ten cards Chris made? (Hint - when he asked for a green marker I almost didn't give him one!) It was fun to punch holes in the cards and tie a red ribbon on each one and even though it looks a little messy, I think it adds a fun element to it.
How do you like to do Valentine's cards at your house? I do prefer making them by hand, I feel like it adds just a little more love to each one, but I'm certainly not against keeping it simple and buying them. I think what is most important is that the child decides what THEY want to do. I even told them that they didn't have to do them at all, but that they wouldn't get any Valentine's if they didn't give any Valentine's. It really upped the incentive for them when they understood the give and take.
Happy Valentine's! Hope you have a wonderful LOVE day everyone!